Navigating a divorce is arguably one of the most emotionally and legally complex chapters in a person’s life. In Maryland, the process involves a delicate balance of property division, custody arrangements, and emotional transitions that can feel overwhelming. While it is natural to want the process to end quickly, the actions you take during the initial stages can significantly impact your future and your family’s well-being.

Post Negative Content on Social Media
In today’s digital age, sharing our daily lives online has become second nature. However, when you are involved in a Maryland divorce, your social media accounts transition from personal scrapbooks to potential evidence lockers. Every photo, “check-in,” and status update is subject to intense scrutiny. Opposing counsel can use these posts to challenge your character, call into question your fitness as a parent, or even dispute your reported financial status. For that reason, it’s important that you refrain from posting negative content on your social media.
Attempt to Hide or Transfer Assets
Some individuals feel the urge to move money to separate accounts or “gift” property to friends to keep it out of the marital pool. In Maryland, this is considered a “fraudulent conveyance” and can lead to severe legal penalties, including being ordered to pay your spouse’s legal fees. The court values transparency above all else during the discovery phase.
Not Prioritize Your Children
Divorce is undeniably most difficult for the children involved. While parents are focused on the legal and financial complexities of separation, children are navigating a significant emotional upheaval. Involving them in parental disputes—whether intentionally or unintentionally—can lead to long-lasting psychological distress. It is essential to remember that your children should remain children, not participants in your legal proceedings.
In addition, Maryland courts operate under a singular, guiding principle: the “best interests of the child.” A judge will closely examine how each parent fosters the child’s relationship with the other parent.
Not Comply with Court Orders
In a Maryland legal proceeding, temporary orders—whether they concern child support, alimony, or the use of the family home—are not suggestions; they are legally binding mandates. Ignoring these orders or failing to adhere to the terms of a signed agreement is a recipe for disaster. Such actions can lead to contempt of court charges, which carry serious repercussions including hefty fines, the loss of specific legal rights, and even potential jail time.
Navigate the Divorce Process by Yourself
Divorce law in Maryland is far from straightforward. Concepts such as “equitable distribution”—which does not always mean a simple 50/50 split—and the nuances of alimony require a deep understanding of state statutes and case law. Attempting to navigate these waters alone, or signing agreements presented by your spouse without an independent review, is a significant risk. Without professional guidance, you may unknowingly waive rights to retirement accounts, property, or future financial support that you are legally entitled to.
Your New Chapter Starts with Billian Law
The decisions you make during a legal transition are more than just temporary fixes; they are the essential building blocks of your new life. Navigating a divorce is as much about strategically protecting your future as it is about closing a current chapter.
At the Law Offices of Alan L. Billian P.A., we understand that this is more than just a case; it is the beginning of your next journey. Our team is dedicated to providing the steady guidance and expert legal advocacy you need to move forward with confidence. From protecting your assets to securing your parental rights, we are committed to helping you lay a solid foundation for everything that comes next.
Ready to protect your future? Contact us to schedule your consultation today.